Love... is All That Matters...!

     Of late it has been observed that people are becoming excessive expressive especially in the case of expressing Love...!

     There are few love couples whose day starts with a 'Love You' message followed by another at Lunch and finishes by one more. Even married people follow similar 'protocols' in many instances.

     It might look like these things come out of true love but a keen observation can tell that these people fall into either of two categories:
1) They are worried that if they don't express their love so often, the other side might slip away from them.
2) They really don't MEAN what they say.
    This is quite evident because when one says 'I Love You' which is a statement of simple present tense to express feelings, that means she/he keeps loving till they change their mind. And if one says 'I LOVE YOU' every now and then that means they changed their mind in between! This reminds me of somebody saying "To stop smoking is very easy. I stop smoking everyday minimum 10times". When someone says 'I Love You' a 10 times, Do they mean that they stop loving u those many times and resume love thereafter? Or do they want to affirm themselves that I loved you this morning and Wowww its evening now and I still love you...!

     Some people fall into this trap of mindless rituals due to the Side Actors (the so called friends). Some times on the Fool's day (Not to get confused with April 1st, this fools' day comes around the mid of Feb), one of the Side Actors exclaims "Oh ...... My ...... Goddd..... He didn't send you roses on THIS day?". In fact she voices it as if she just got the information that the World is ending this year end or some Tsunami threat has just been issued. Some asks "Oh only Roses... nothing else?".

     Just on Feb14 if we send bunch of flowers and few gifts, does that suffice? This should be required for those who cant love the rest of the year. Its like we need to remind something, only if we forget that. Few call the gifts, tokens of love. But its sad that only few can understand the love which is beyond such tokens and show-offs. When I am yours, whatever I have is yours so where is the scope for the thing 'I Give' again.

     People say Love is eternal but the true spirit of love is not widely understood these days. The true love doesn't need an expression nor a word nor a speech. Love has its own language which is communicated through eyes. The silence speaks more than words. At the same time Love is not any worldly affair. It can not and should not change quite often.

     Love is a feeling and it shall only be felt not can it be seen nor can be heard and most importantly can't be measured.